Allah has not made for a man two hearts in his interior. And He has not made your wives whom you declare unlawful your mothers. And he has not made your adopted sons your [true] sons. That is [merely] your saying by your mouths, but Allah says the truth, and He guides to the [right] way. - Quran:Al-Ahzab 33:4 (islam)
-Does the Tafsir says "Ibn Kathir - This was revealed concerning Zayd bin Harithah, may Allah be pleased with him, the freed servant of the Prophet. The Prophet had adopted him before prophethood, and he was known as Zayd bin Muhammad. Allah wanted to put an end to this naming and attribution and releaved this verse"?
- Why is it because of Zainab (Bukhari 7420)?
- When Mohamed fell in Love with his daughter in Law, how come Allah revealed this verse, isn't it convenient?
- Maybe Allah loves Mohamed very Much, what do you think?
- Was it Allah or Mohamed?
- Just because Mohamed fell in Love with his own daughter in Law?
- Is it possible today to adopt a child?
- Can I marry my daughter in Law If I will?
- Is it Moral?
Call them by [the names of] their fathers; it is more just in the sight of Allah. But if you do not know their fathers - then they are [still] your brothers in religion and those entrusted to you. And there is no blame upon you for that in which you have erred but [only for] what your hearts intended. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful. - Quran:Al-Ahzab 33:5 (islam)
-What will happen to your adopted children if you die, can you give them something from your estate?
And [remember, O Muhammad], when you said to the one on whom Allah bestowed favor and you bestowed favor, "Keep your wife and fear Allah," while you concealed within yourself that which Allah is to disclose. And you feared the people, while Allah has more right that you fear Him. So when Zayd had no longer any need for her, We married her to you in order that there not be upon the believers any discomfort concerning the wives of their adopted sons when they no longer have need of them. And ever is the command of Allah accomplished. - Quran:Al-Ahzab 33:37 (islam)
-Can I marry my adopted daughter, is it Halal?
- What if I'm still married to her mother?
- Can I have a mother and a daughter as wives and have sex with both of them?
- What is the position of Fiqh on the matter?
- Is it ok if I divorce my wife before I marry my adopted daughter?
Chapter: “…And His Throne was on the water…”
Narrated Anas:
Zaid bin Haritha came to the Prophet (ﷺ) complaining about his wife. The Prophet (ﷺ) kept on saying (to him), "Be afraid of Allah and keep your wife." Aisha said, "If Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) were to conceal anything (of the Qur'an he would have concealed this Verse." Zainab used to boast before the wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) and used to say, "You were given in marriage by your families, while I was married (to the Prophet) by Allah from over seven Heavens." And Thabit recited, "The Verse:-- 'But (O Muhammad) you did hide in your heart that which Allah was about to make manifest, you did fear the people,' (33.37) was revealed in connection with Zainab and Zaid bin Haritha." - Sahih:Al Bukhari:7420 (islam)
-Is this story the reason why adoption became forbidden?
- Or is it a way for Allah to reinforce the interdiction of adoption?
- Is it a bit much convenient for Mohamed?
And they request from you, [O Muhammad], a [legal] ruling concerning women. Say, "Allah gives you a ruling about them and [about] what has been recited to you in the Book concerning the orphan girls to whom you do not give what is decreed for them - and [yet] you desire to marry them - and concerning the oppressed among children and that you maintain for orphans [their rights] in justice." And whatever you do of good - indeed, Allah is ever Knowing of it. - Quran:An-Nisa 4:127 (islam)
-Does the tafsir says "Ibn Abbas - (They consult thee concerning women) they ask you about the inheritance of women; the one who asked him was 'Uyaynah. (Say: Allah giveth to you decree) expounds to you the legal ruling (concerning them) concerning their inheritance, (and the Scripture) at the beginning of this surah (which hath been recited unto you (giveth decree), concerning female orphans) the daughters of Umm Kuhhah (unto whom ye give not that which is ordained for them) that which is prescribed for them of inheritance; Allah has already explained this at the beginning of the surah (though you desire to marry them) you refrain from marrying them because they are not attractive, so now give them their wealth so that you may desire to marry them for that which they have, (and (concerning) the weak among children) and He expounds to you the inheritance of children, (and that ye should deal justly with orphans) He explains to you that you should protect justly and fairly the wealth of orphans. (Whatever good ye do) by being kind to them, (lo! Allah is ever Aware of it) as well as of your intentions.
Al-Jalalayn - They will ask you for a pronouncement concerning, the matter of, women, and their inheritance. Say, to them: God pronounces to you concerning them, and what is recited to you in the Book, the Quran, in the 'inheritance' verse [Q. 4:11], and He also pronounces to you, concerning the orphan women to whom you do not give what is prescribed, [what] is obligatory, for them, of inheritance, for you, O guardians, who desire, not, to marry them, because of their ugliness, and you prevent them from marrying [others], coveting their inheritance: in other words, God pronounces to you not to do this; and, concerning, the oppressed, young, children, that you give them what is their due, and, He also commands you, that you deal justly, equitably, with orphans, with respect to inheritance and dowry. Whatever good you do, God is ever Knower of it, and He will requite you for it."?
- Is it really about marrying orphan as helpless children?
- Is the Tafasir clearer?
- What is the dowry for an orphan, as her guardian?
- Does Islam ask to give a dowry superior in value of the inheritance of the orphan, to avoid?
- Is it about the Guardian of Orphan children whose guardian wants to marry them?
- Is it moral for a Guardian posing as a replacement father to marry and have sex with their pupil?
- Since Islam forbade adoption, why Allah didn't forbid the marriage with the orphan you’re the guardian of?
Chapter: Seeking The Girl's Permission
Narrated Abu Hurairah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: An orphan virgin girl should be consulted about herself; if she says nothing that indicates her permission, but if she refuses, the authority of the guardian cannot be exercised against her will. The full information rest with the tradition narrated by Yazid. Abu Dawud said: This tradition has also been transmitted in a similar way by Abu Khalid Sulaiman b. Hayyan and Mu'adh b. Mu'adh on the authority of Muhammad b. 'Amr. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2093 (islam)
-Is it like the hadiths about the silence of virgins (Bukhari 6968)?
Chapter: What Has Been Related About Coercing A Female Orphan To Marry
Abu Hurairah narrated that:
The Messenger of Allah said: "An orphan is to be consulted about herself, then if she is silent that is her permission, and if she refuses, then do not authorize it (the marriage) for her" (meaning: when she attains the age of puberty and refuses it.) - Hasan:Tirmidhi:1109 (islam)
Chapter: Regarding Widowed And Divorced Women
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: A guardian has no concern with a woman previously married and has no husband, and an orphan girl (i.e. virgin) must be consulted, her silence being her acceptance. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2100 (islam)
-What is an orphan?
- Are you considered an orphan if you have menstruation?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Prophet said:
"A previously married woman has more right to decide about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian, and an orphan girl should be consulted, and her permission is her silence." - Sahih:An Nasai:3261 (islam)
-Are you still an orphan if you are married?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Messenger of Allah said:
"A previously married woman has more right (to decide) about herself (with regard to marriage) than her guardian, and an orphan girl should be consulted with regard to marriage, and her permission is her silence." - Sahih:An Nasai:3262 (islam)
-Is a child allowed to say no to a marriage?
Chapter: Asking A Virgin For Permission With Regard To Marriage
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas that the Prophet said:
"The guardian has no right (to force) the previously married woman (into a marriage). And an orphan girl should be consulted, and her silence is her approval." - Sahih:An Nasai:3263 (islam)
-Can you have an orphan boy in your house?
- What will happen if he reaches puberty, will it be Halal, authorized, for him to see the daughters, your wives without a veil?
- Or will it be obligatory for the women to wear a veil inside de house?
- Can someone in the house suckle the young orphan to made him a mahram (Muslim 1453a)?
- Is it valid today to let an adult or a young boy to drink a bit of women breast milk to allow him to live in a house?
And oppress not the widow, nor the fatherless, the stranger, nor the poor; and let none of you imagine evil against his brother in your heart. - Bible:OT:Zechariah 7:10 (bible)
-If we consider a slave is most of the time a foreigner or a poor, does it forbid slavery?
- If you consider this verse to be against slavery, does it mean the verses condoning it are false?
- Does all verses of the Bible are true?
- Do you oppress if you enslave?
- How come christians owned slaves for centuries after Jesus?
And test the orphans [in their abilities] until they reach marriageable age. Then if you perceive in them sound judgement, release their property to them. And do not consume it excessively and quickly, [anticipating] that they will grow up. And whoever, [when acting as guardian], is self-sufficient should refrain [from taking a fee]; and whoever is poor - let him take according to what is acceptable. Then when you release their property to them, bring witnesses upon them. And sufficient is Allah as Accountant. - Quran:An-Nisa 4:6 (islam)
-It's good to have rules to manage the wealth of orphans, but can you adopt them, consider them as family?
- Why adoption was forbidden (33:37)?
- What about Zainab, the prophet’s daughter in Law (Bukhari 7420, 5171)?
Chapter: Women Whom It Is Disliked To Combine Between (In Marriage)
Ibn Shihab said “’Urwah bin Al Zubair asked A’ishah , wife of the Prophet(ﷺ) about the Qur’anic verse “And if ye fear that ye will not deal fairly by the orphans, marry of the women, who seem good to you.” She said “O my nephew, this means the female orphan who is under the protection of her guardian and she holds a share in his property and her property and beauty attracts him; so her guardian intends to marry her without doing justice to her in respect of her dower and he gives her the same amount of dower as others give her. They (i.e., the guardians) were prohibited to marry them except that they do justice to them and pay them their maximum customary dower and they were asked to marry women other than them (i.e., the orphans) who seem good to them. ‘Urwah reported that A’ishah said “The people then consulted the Apostle of Allaah(ﷺ) about women after revelation of this verse. Thereupon Allaah the Exalted sent down the verse “They consult thee concerning women. Say Allaah giveth you decree concerning them and the scripture which hath been recited unto you(giveth decree) concerning female orphans unto whom you give not that which is ordained for them though you desire to marry them. “ She said “The mention made by Allaah about the Scripture recited to them refers to the former verse in which Allaah has said “And if ye fear that ye will not deal fairly by the orphans, marry of the women, who seem good to you.” A’ishah said “The pronouncement of Allaah , the Exalted in the latter verse “though you desire to marry them” means the disinterest of one of you in marrying a female orphan who was under his protection, but she said little property and beauty. So they were prohibited to marry them for their interest in the property and beauty of the female orphans due to their disinterest in themselves except that they do justice )to them). The narrator Yunus said “Rabi’ah said explain the Qur’anic verse “And if ye fear that ye will not deal fairly by the orphans” means “Leave them if you fear (that you will not do justice to them), for I have made four women lawful for you.” - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2068 (islam)
-If you have a little girl, in your home, you are raising her like your daughter, why would you want to marry her?